Total concur. And the ironic thing about these “body positive” activists is that they expect - nay, they demand - that you see them as beautiful. Yet they will still expect a man with an athletic build “because I refuse to lower my standards.” Butt! You call it sexism if a man won’t lower his. So much for equality.
I do agree with this. If woman wants man of their standards, they better work for that similar standard. Laziness is not excuse.